Sexual pleasure is one of the most coveted and sought after by the human species. In fact man has dealt with the love and aphrodisiacs since history is history. All cultures were prepared filters and love potions, salves and practice rituals to attract the opposite sex, enhance sexuality and fertility.
The first aphrodisiacs were foods and plants whose shape closely resembled in its natural state to the male or female sexual organs or shared the same perfume during sex. When the ancient Greeks and Romans wanted to "spice up" your sex life, drank a few sips of fluid called Satirión (from the Greek satyr, a god who allowed sexual excesses), which drew a kind of orchid shaped bulbs human testis. It is said that "Hercules, receiving Thespiae drink, deflowered the fifteen children of his host in a single night."
Mandrake - whose root is shaped like a penis - was another plant considered an aphrodisiac. He said that when a man is hanged, he ejaculated and jumping from mandragora fell on the ground where semen. In the Middle Ages, eating a plate full of onions was a sure way to prolong an erection and increase sperm count, property shared by other vegetables testicles shaped like garlic, radish and turnip. With lots of fruits like pomegranate seeds and figs were recommended for those who wanted many children.
It is said that Giacomo Casanova, aphrodisiac had a secret weapon: trust the hot chocolate. Apparently he was not wrong because according to claim British researchers at the University of Bristol, chocolate contains a substance that raises people a "good feeling". The human body increases production of the substance feniletinamina with the ingestion of chocolate. In his memoirs, Casanova also gives powers to enhance sexual capacity of egg salad. The salad sauce, composed of sage, mint, onion, black pepper and vinegar should be ready two weeks before being used. Casanova added after the yolks of six eggs freshly cooked, which apparently allowed him to make love marathons of six sessions. Also part of her recipes oysters, caviar and truffles, as his biographer Ruth Bombosch.
A review of most international men's magazines market today reminds us of aphrodisiacs of millions of dollars. Men who want to feel its Ejaculation Trainer effects are spending millions of dollars every year. The majority relies on a placebo effect and a lot of erotic fantasy.
Our natural aphrodisiacs
Pheromones, existing in various animal species, are potent "messengers" or chemical aphrodisiacs used for subjects of the same species to communicate among themselves. They consist of external secretions produced by the skin and mucous membranes that act through smell or taste as a sexual signal and thus cause sexual responses.
We humans can also generate them to enhance our sexual encounters, to revitalize, to break the tedium and monotony that often overwhelms us. We know that sex never occurs spontaneously and if it is expected that this happens, we are disappointed.
Finding enough time to make love without trouble is key to maintaining a good level of partner. After the first years of living and sometimes after the honeymoon, sexuality is neglected, forgotten, the couple does not have "free time" and fails to leave the hectic pace of a busy schedule, thus do not have time to be together. Surely in this situation do not have good sex.
And why not plan a weekend out alone, without children?. On day one of the two people express their fantasies and desires, you can request what you want, both sexual and otherwise. The other person is the giver who is responsible for realizing those orders. The next day the roles are changed. Most couples find that the game is enlightening and liberating, while the relationship grows. When finished, both have made stunning discoveries about each other's fantasies, as well as their fears and passions.
There is always a prelude, a ritual that leads to the sexual. A friendly chat over breakfast, for example, might signal for a sexual encounter after dinner. A touch on a lift may be an indicator that the climate is conducive to turn the flame of passion.
The music can be another way of awakening desires as has often been associated in memory, erotic moments. The perfumes, aromas and essences are often powerful sexual stimulants and arouse emotions. Our sense of smell is closely linked anatomically, with parts of the brain linked to emotion. Similarly, also is linked to the major centers of excitation of wakefulness, alertness and vigor, fragrance can thus awaken memories, feelings and energy, even without us being aware of it. The Kamasutra of Vatsyayana advises: "In the intensely perfumed room, the bed must be soft, pleasing to the eye, white clean sheets covered with wreaths and flowers on top, canopy and two pillows, one in the head and another at the foot . You should also have a stool to be placed on the perfumed ointments for the night, asf as flowers and fragrant substances for perfuming the mouth. "
Why not some risk? Remember the excitement we felt when we stroked teen on the couch in the living room while our parents were not. Why not reintroduce that feeling again in life? Elude the vigilance of the children or making love in the back seat of the car or in unusual places can be an unforgettable experience.
And do not forget the words, talk, are another powerful stimulant, in the discovery process are infinite, able to eroticize the couple. Talking with each other about everything that happens does not prevent threads, which prevents harmful are the silences. It's like tuning instruments before a concert, only after the participants are well in tune with themselves and each other are allowed to enter into sexual intimacy.
Romantic literature is rich in allusions to the love for food and food as love. Throughout history, food, drinks and potions were recommended by their nature aphrodisiac. Anyway, this character is simply mythical. A glass of champagne, for example, is able to reduce inhibitions and get in erotic state, but too much alcohol away the possibility of erection and orgasm.
When planning a party for lovers, foods are chosen for their sensual side: strawberries for its juiciness, its heart shape and red, like the passion, cherries, asparagus and oysters, exquisitely moist and meaty, whose shape suggests the region most intimate of women. Good sex requires the same dedication, the same work that needed to prepare a good meal. It is true that fast food nourishes and satisfies and in fact is what we usually do but does not have "that" particularity "that taste" of a meal in which attention has been paid to detail. The surrounding environment, the layout of the place where they serve, putting the table in an attractive manner, with flowers, intimate lighting and soft music are as important as culinary skills employed in it.
All these "aphrodisiacs", used so varied and creative by adding all the particulars of which humans are able to re-create or create the magic needed to revitalize our relationship.